VITA™ Sex, Love, & Relationship Coaching

Online or In-Person

Connect back to your freedom, authenticity, pleasure, and power with Sacred Sexuality.

Discover ways to redefine manhood and decide who you are and who you want to be!

Common Topics

Be the Best Lover

Feel Sexually Attractive and Successful

Have A Successful Marriage/Relationship

Master Your Sexual Performance

Connect Love and Sex

Feel Empowered in Sexuality

Unwind Sexual Conditioning

Heal Sexual Health Issues;

• Erectile dysfunction

• Premature ejaculation

• Compulsive explicit content watching

• Sexual challenges

What is The VITA™ Method

The VITA™ Method (the Vital and Integrated Tantric Approach) is a transformational process to heal and awaken your deepest wisdom using holistic tools like breathwork, pleasure practices, trauma healing, meditative practices, energy work, sounding, and movement that blend modern neurobiology, coaching, blending ancient and powerful teachings of Tantra, Taoism, and Sacred Sexuality.

Backed by modern science and empowered by ancient wisdom, you learn to work with the primal brain and the deep subconscious, which allows you to resolve the issues that keep you from having the sex, relationships, and love that you desire and deserve.

As a desire-based coaching system, we don’t spend all of our time focusing on what’s wrong or what’s holding you back – instead, we use your vision of what you desire in your life. This propels you forward and motivates you to heal and integrate whatever keeps you from living your deepest desires.

I am currently a student in the VITA course.

I am taking practice clients to complete my requirements for certification.

Taking them through these 10 sessions.

•Session 1: Masculine Power

•Session 2: Masculine Embodiment

•Session 3: Healing Father

•Session 4: Finding the Primal

•Session 5: Holistic Sex Tools

•Session 6: Beginner Training

•Session 7: Intermediate Training

•Session 8: Advanced Training

•Session 9: Being Multi-Orgasmic

•Session 10: Being an Advanced Lover

How it Works

It all begins with Desire.

We start off by establishing your Desire Map, a collection of your goals and desires for our work together, and in a larger view, for your life moving forward.

Desire mapping is so important. We take time to find the truth of your hearts most deepest and authentic desires Making sure they are in alignment for your highest good. This creates the North Star for our sessions together.

Desire mapping is a part of every session, keeping us on track and moving towards living the life of your dreams.

The Wisdom of the BodyMind

The key to this amazing transformational work IS IN YOUR BODY

We experience life through our bodies and senses, and if we want to feel more integrated and healed, the body needs to be intentionally engaged in the process.

During coaching embodiment sessions, we engage thinking, feeling, sensing, intuiting and actions.

We learn to tune into our body, to listen and relate, as we pay attention to sensations and internal wisdom. We tune into what is called the BodyMind.

Through the body, layers of healing, empowerment, and liberation are possible.

Once you understand that trauma is stored in the body, and as such can be healed with a bottom-up approach, you can feel hope and excitement again. Releasing trauma and blocks opens the body to higher states of experiencing pleasure.

EVERY SESSION WILL INVOLVE BODY/MIND MAPPING

Giving Voice To The BodyMind

It is remarkable how the body communicates. With a sense of curiosity and present moment awareness, we feel into the body, ready to listen to the messages it has to share.

We hear and hold these messages with love and compassion. We learn to listen to your body-mind’s needs, and from that awareness we do integration processes that will profoundly heal those past wounds, the rejected or neglected parts of us that are screaming for attention, affection and protection.  

Creating New Ways of Being

Once you are able to be more present with your body, you are familiar with so many different pieces of your body-mind – and all the consciousness they have – we keep healing, integrating and empowering the parts that come up so that you can achieve your goals and desires.


You’ll notice that the messages from your deeper intuition, from your body-mind wisdom, are really aligned with your soul’s purposes, and together we’ll create the appropriate inner ecology that will allow you to thrive.

Sexual Empowerment and Erotic Bliss

It’s my greatest desire that everyone has the opportunity to reconnect with their sexuality in the most loving and authentic way that is possible and available to all of us, regardless of your upbringing, social conditioning, false truths, or traumatic experiences.

You are also worthy of sexual bliss!

Because pleasure is a key aspect of our embodiment journey, you’ll also learn beautiful and inspiring ways to reconnect with your sensuality and sexuality from a place of power, agency, potency and divine inspiration.

You’ll learn Sacred Sexuality embodiment approaches that are based on Tao and Tantric Traditions, and you will understand how sexual empowerment is the missing piece towards a fully thriving life.

Possible Session Themes

Our time together will have structure, goals, ritual and somatic practices. Present moment awareness will guide us to what’s most important in any given sessions. We can always shift plans.

Your unique core desire will lead the way for what we work on in a session.

What may be included in your session.

  • Creating Safety and Sacred Space

  • Grounding Meditation

  • Celebrations

  • Present Concerns Talk

  • Desire Mapping

  • A Five Senses Reality Visualization

  • BodyMind Mapping and Exploration

  • Practices to Dive Deeper

  • Empowering Skills and Awarenesses

  • Inner and Outer Work -to be done on your own between sessions.

  • Reflection and Gratitude

Here are some session themes.

  • Desire Mapping - Celebrations

  • 5 Senses Reality - Body/Mind Mapping

  • Liberating the Family Dynamic

  • Embracing the Inner Child

  • Creating a Thriving Sexual Ecology

  • Getting What You Desire

  • Finding Emotional Empowerment

  • The Power of Intentional Self-Pleasure

  • Journey into the Self

  • Vibrant and Healthy Relationships

  • Sexual Issues -Men

    • premature ejaculation

    • semen retention practice

    • heart/sex disconnection

    • lack of sensation

    • sexual shame

    • porn dependency

    • release tension and emotional blockages

    • enhance your mindfulness presence

    • intimacy and so much more.